Remove Leaked Photos & Videos From FetLife
FetLife joined StopNCII as an industry partner in 2026, which means hash-registered intimate images are auto-blocked from upload across the network. For content already posted, we file as your authorized agent under signed Letter of Authorization to FetLife's 24/7 caretaking team, with notices routing under our business name not yours.
Why direct DMCA fails on FetLife
- FetLife is a kink and BDSM community where consent context is central, but unauthorized re-posts of intimate images still violate their policy. Reports require precise framing to bypass community-context confusion.
- In-app reports route to FetLife's general moderation queue alongside thousands of other reports daily.
- Standard DMCA exposes your identity through the counter-notice process and in the public Lumen Database.
- Content from FetLife sometimes propagates to kink-adjacent forums and image boards where direct takedown is harder.
How IntimaShield forces removal
- We walk you through StopNCII.org hash registration (your image stays on your device, only the hash leaves your computer) so any future upload of your content to FetLife is auto-blocked at the upload layer.
- For content already on FetLife, we file as your authorized agent to report@fetlife.com with the URL, content description, and a consent statement. FetLife's 24/7 caretaking team processes NCII reports with priority over standard community reports.
- We monitor for re-uploads on FetLife and on kink-adjacent forums via twice-weekly SerpAPI scans, filing fresh takedowns under our agent credentials so your identity stays out of public records.
About FetLife and how removal works
FetLife is the largest kink and BDSM social network and joined the StopNCII industry partner program in 2026. The partnership is meaningful for FetLife users specifically because the platform\'s community culture historically tolerates a wider range of intimate content than mainstream platforms, but explicitly prohibits non-consensual posting. The challenge for victims has been distinguishing "intimate content posted with consent" (acceptable on FetLife) from "intimate content of me posted without my consent" (prohibited). The StopNCII hash partnership cuts through that ambiguity by blocking the specific images you have registered, regardless of who uploads them or what consent claim accompanies the post.
FetLife operates a 24/7 caretaking team that handles reports across more than 20 internal policies, including revenge porn, harassment, identity impersonation, and CSAM. Reports filed to report@fetlife.com with proper NCII framing process faster than generic in-app reports because the caretaking team can act on structured legal-agent notices without back-and-forth clarification. CSAM cases trigger account preservation for law enforcement coordination.
IntimaShield\'s authorized-agent filings to FetLife route under our business name and Chicago address. Your real identity does not surface in FetLife\'s moderation logs, in any cross-platform record, or in the Lumen Database. For content that has spread from FetLife to kink-adjacent forums and image boards (a common pattern given the community overlap), parallel filings on those external sites are part of the same case.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does the StopNCII partnership apply to all FetLife content or just photos?
StopNCII hash technology works on still images. Videos are not currently covered by the standard hash partnership. For video content on FetLife, the path is direct authorized-agent reporting to report@fetlife.com.
What if my content was posted with consent originally but I withdraw consent now?
Consent withdrawal is recognized under FetLife's policies, but the path is different from non-consensual reporting from the start. Withdrawal requests require account-holder context, while non-consensual reports go through caretaking. IntimaShield's intake walks through which path fits your situation.
How does FetLife handle takedown requests for accounts owned by ex-partners?
FetLife's caretaking team handles the moderation action regardless of the relationship between the reporter and the account holder. We do not contact the ex-partner or anyone else in your social context as part of the takedown. The action happens through FetLife's internal process.